Above are photos of my 4 boys. It is not easy to get them to pose so happy, ‘civilised’ and loving towards each other, believe me! They do fight and argue but thank God, what matters is that they care about each other and watch out for one another. One minute they may be clawing and screaming at each other but the next, they will be rolling on the floor laughing at each other jokes or antics. However, with the arrival of each new baby, both my husband and I tried very hard to ensure that each of them are assured of our constant and ever increasing love towards each of them individually. (Lilian)

Before the arrival of my baby Matthew above, I had another baby Vincent whom was a premature baby who needed a lot of medical care. Taking care of him has inevitably taken a lot of my time and thus almost neglecting the other children. However, they have adapted well and even helped as much as they can. Vincent has his own website at My Little Hero.