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Contributed by Lilian

Heat oven to 180 deg C and line a large cake tin. (Size : 20 cm square tin)
1 can (abt 250-300 gm drained weight) of pineapple rings (squeeze the syrup) and cut into small pieces
375 gm mixed fruits (the weight of a box) * soak in 5 tablespoons of brandy 3 days before baking. Keep in refigerator till needed
100 gm brown sugar (the light brown one like castor sugar)
150 gm butter

1. Put all the above into a pot and cook over low fire till sugar and butter melt. Leave to cool.
2. Then add:

2 large eggs
250 gm self-raising flour
1 teaspoon bicarbonate of soda
1 teaspoon of vanilla essence

3. Mix well. Bake in 180 deg C oven for 1 hour. Test with a satay stick or chopstick. If it comes out clean, then cake is baked. Remove from oven and drizzle with 3 tablespoon of brandy. Cake tastes best if left for a day or two, wrapped with cling wrap.

Contributed by Lilian

A bunch of ikan bilis (wash & soak)
2 eggs
A plate of rice (enuff for 2 small eaters)

1. Heat oil, fry ikan bilis till slightly brown and crunchy.
2. Add rice, add eggs.
3. Season with some soya sauce and pepper.
Add chicken or frozen peas if prefer.

Contributed by Lilian

1. Mince garlic and tumis in oil. If you are using chicken (use only fleshy part like breast) or prawn, add them and cook.
2. Put in brocolli. You can season with just salt and pepper. Or you can make a paste using some oyster sauce and cornflour. Don't cook the vege any futher, just enough to mix well.

Contributed by Lilian

2 chicken thighs cut into 6 pieces
2 potatoes quartered
5 pips garlic (Grind to paste)
ginger size of your thumb (less if your kids can't take too hot)
1 tbspn of taucheo (preserved soya beans)

1. Heat a little oil, tumis the pounded ingredients till fragrant.
2. Add chicken and fry for a while.
3. Add potatoes and a bowl of water. Simmer over low heat and add more water so that you have a little sauce. When potatoes are soft, ready to serve. Taste best if kept overnight.

Contributed by Lilian

2 tbsp Marmite
4 tbso hot water
1 tbsp sugar
Lots of black pepper
2 pips garlic, chopped (one clove garlic is the whole bulb and one pip is the segment)
A little oil

1. Dissolve marmite and sugar in hot water.
2. Heat oil in small pan, saute garlic, add black pepper, pour in the mixture. Sudah siap.

You can either use one chicken breast cut into small pieces or 300 gm prawns or sausage, use your imagination. Coat chicken breast/prawn with some white pepper and corn flour. Deep fry, take out and add the Marmite sauce.

Contributed by Lilian

Get a variety of sotong balls, taufoo fish balls etc. Boil till cook and then pan fry in a bit of oil so that the surfaces look a bit brown.

To make sauce:
1 small bottle of Peace brand tomyam paste (about RM2+)
2 stalks serai (bruised)
3 tomatoes (cut into quarter)
2 Onions (cut into quarter)
3-5 leaves of limau purut (kaffir lime) sold in supermarket about RM1 per packet. (bruised)
Thai chilli sauce (those sweet variety)
2 large lime (green colour one), squeeze for water
Coriander leaves for decoration and more fragrant (coriander leaves is like Chinese celery but it is smaller and much more pungent. Called 'guan sui' in Hokkien)
Cili padi if you prefer hotter version.

1. Tumis the serai, onion and kaffir lime leaves till fragrant.
2. Add tomatoes (cili padi) and tomyam paste. Tumis a little while.
3. Add the lime juice and thai chili sauce (enough to make the whole thing pasty).
4. Add in balls. Sprinkle with coriander leaves.

In place of sotong balls, you can try the various vegetarian squids, kidney, prawns etc. Very healthy and very tasty too. You can keep the extra sauce in the freezer. Or if you add water, you get tomyam. But if making tomyam, it is tastier to boil chicken bones and prawn head plus the coriander roots.

BAKED METHI CHAMAN - A popular methi paneer with a Western touch.
Contributed by Shamira

4 teacups chopped spinach
1 teacup chopped fenugreek (methi) leaves
a pinch soda bi-carb
1 onion, chopped
1 green chilli, chopped
100 grams fresh paneer, cut into small pieces ( this is home made cottage cheese)

2 tablespoons ghee or refined oil
salt to taste
For the potato layer
3 potatoes, boiled and mashed coarsely
2 tablespoons chopped coriander
1 teaspoon chopped green chillies
1 teaspoon lemon juice
salt to taste
For the covering
100 grams beaten cream or 1 teacup white sauce
4 tablespoons grated cheese

For the potato layer:
1. Mix together all the ingredients.
2. Boil the spinach and the fenugreek leaves in 2 tablespoons of water with a pinch of soda bi-carbonate until soft. Drain and blend in a blender.
3. Heat the ghee and fry the onion until golden in colour. Add the green chilli and fry again for a few seconds. Add the spinach and fenugreek.
4. Add the paneer pieces and salt. If required, add a little lemon juice.
5. Spread the potato layer evenly at the bottom of a baking dish and spread the spinach mixture on the top.
6. Cover with the beaten cream and cheese and bake in a hot oven at 200 degree C (400 degree F) for 15 to 20 minutes.
7. Serve hot.

Contributed by Sheela

50g blackgram dhal (ulundu) with skin
175g uncooked rice
75g cooked rice
1 1/2-2 cups water
1 tsp salt or to taste
Cooking oil or sesame oil (gingili oil) or ghee

1. Wash rice and dhal and soak each separately overnight or for at least seven to eight hours. Drain, remove skin from the dhal.
2. Grind rice and dhal together with the cooked rice and water in a blender until smooth. Strain batter through a fine sieve. Add salt and mix well. Leave to ferment for eight to 10 hours. (Refrigerate if not using it for breakfast.)
3. Grease an iron griddle lightly with gingili oil. Pour a ladleful of batter onto the centre of the griddle. Spread the batter immediately with the back of the ladle starting from the centre in a clockwise motion to make a thin pancake.
4. Cook for about half a minute or until the underside turns slightly brown. Remove thosai from the griddle and repeat till the rest of the batter is used up. Serve thosai with dhalca chicken curry.


Contributed by Sheela

1 cup coconut
2 shallots
ginger (abt 1 cm)
garlic -2 cloves
green chilly-2
curry leaves

Blend all the above in a blender.

Mustard seed (biji sawi)-1/2 tsp
curry leaves
Dry chilly-1

1. Heat oil in a small wok. Fry the mustard seed until it splutters. Add the curry leaves & dry chilly for a few secs. Add all this (together with the oil) to the blended ingredients.

Contributed by Sheela

1 cup Dhal
1 big onion-cubed finely
1 Tomato-cubed
1 green chilly-sliced thinly round
1 tsp ginger garlic paste
1/2 tsp jintan putih
1/2 tsp biji sawi (mustard seeds)
1/2 tsp fenugreek seeds
1/2 tsp turmeric powder
LG Asofoetida (get in solid form & not powder-can get from Indian provision shop)-abt the size of 5 cents coin would do
curry leaves
coriander leaves chopped for garnishing.

1. Pressure cook the dhall with a little water, turmeric powder & LG (about 5 whistles-or till the dhal is cooked )
2.Heat oil in wok, add mustard seeds & after the seeds have exploded, add jintan putih & fenugreek & fry for a few secs.
3. Add onions & fry till it is limp & lightly browned.
4. Add ginger garlic paste & green chilly & fry for a few secs. Add curry leaves & chopped tomatoes.
5. Add the pressure cooked dhal (there should still be a little water). Add a more water so that it is less thick & let it boil for a few mins.Close fire & add the chopped coriander leaves.
6. Enjoy with chapattis.

Contributed by Kat

Garlic, Ginger (A)
Carrots, Spinach (B)
Fish, thinly sliced

1. Saute (A), add water and simmer a while (makes a nice fragrant stock).
2. Add (B), cook until tender. Put in fish, bring to boil and remove from fire to avoid overcooking fish. 3. Serve with rice, noodles or meehoon.

Contributed by Kat

1/2 Onion
1/2 cup fresh mushroom, finely diced
1 cup Chicken stock
1/2 Bay leaf
3 tbsp Fresh milk mixed with 2 tsp cornflour
Salt & pepper to taste

1. Saute onion in butter until softened. Add mushrooms and cook for about 5 mins.
2. Add stock and bay leaf. let simmer for 15 mins.
3. Pour milk/flour mix into soup, stir well and season to taste.

If you want the soup to be smooth, you can use a hand blender to puree the soup in the pot before serving.

Contributed by Kat

Lamb chop/chicken breast or thigh, skin removed (A)
Potato, carrot, pearl barley (B)
French bean/peas (C)

1. Saute onion until translucent, then add (A). Stirfry until cooked.
2. Add (B), marmite and some water. Simmer until meat is tender.
3. Add (C) last to avoid overcooking. Serve with rice or pasta.

For younger kids, these 2 recipes can be mashed/pureed.

Contributed by Karen

1 cup long grain rice
2 cups cold water
6 tbsp butter
1 onion, finely chopped
1 large stalk celery, finely chopped
2 tbsp chopped fresh parsley
1/2 tsp sage
1/2 tsp thyme
2 eggs, well beaten
4 slices white bread, crusts removed, cubed and soaked in milk (bm? )
2 cups canned chestnuts, well drained and chopped
1 tsp ground fresh pepper
salt to taste

1. Spread rice in bottom of frying pan. Brown the rice over low heat.
2. Pour water into saucepan and add pinch of salt. Bring to boil.
3. Add browned rice to water, cover and cook 15 minutes over low heat.
4. Melt butter in another saucepan over low heat.
5. Add onion, celery, parsley, sage and thyme. Mix and cook 4 minutes over low heat.
6. Remove saucepan from heat. Add eggs, drained bread, chestnuts, pepper, salt and rice. Mix well.
7. Stuff turkey with mixture.

Contributed by Lai Yin

2pips Garlic - chopped (Optional)
1 onion - chopped
2 tomatoes - roughly diced
2 tbsp minced meat (Chicken, beef or pork)
1 or 2 tbsp Tomato Ketchup (to taste)
bay leaf (optional)

1. Saute garlic and onions till soft.
2. Add minced meat. Saute 2-3mins
3. Add tomatoes. Saute 2-3mins.
4. Add tomato ketchup to taste. Add bay leaf (optional).
5. Add a little water and simmer till everything is soft n mushy.

Makes 2-3 toddler portions. Besides spaghetti, can also go with macaroni, alphabet pasta, capellini etc. Optional extras: can also add chopped carrot or sliced leeks.